Those that say they love me, ignore my pleas to hear my words, or take my happiness into consideration. Where have they been the past few days, weeks, months? My worst experience was three years in Africa, teaching at a school for missionaries’ kids, surrounded by families and couples and happy shiny Christians. Then, my parents are not caring ones, my siblings don’t care whether they see me or not, two of my children from my previous marriage have pulled away from me and I have no friends. I believe that we are in need of metamorphosis and it hurts. I believe God was kind enough to answer my prayer, and I wrote about it too. “The best remedy for those who are afraid, lonely or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere where they can be quiet, alone with the heavens, nature and God. I had a dream recently that my son & I were visiting family and no one noticed we were there. I’m a sexual assault survivor and it took me 20 plus years to forgive myself let alone forgive the assaulter. I have a membership at a fitness center. I finally took myself out for supper last night.Got tired of waiting.Cant tell you how when i stoped given .How phone stop ringing.I cant even tell you how it would off meant.For a call from someone. What do you think of reaching out to others who also feel lost, lonely, and alone? It hurts. I am always looking for solutions to situations. Do some charity work/volunteering once a week. Do something for yourself every day. Also a court will usually give you visiting rights to your son. Nobody is lonesome for me Everybody's longing for somebody else D7 But nobody's lonesome for me Everybody's dreaming about somebody else G But nobody dreams about me C G All I need is a bride who wants a big-hearted groom D7 A7 D7 I wouldn't care if she come riding in on a broom G I’m here crying in my dark bedroom because I feel like nobody cares about me. At least try. When she can get around what is trying to block her communication with me, it is always her love and appreciation wanting to return, but neither of us have the power and money to succeed. Friend , this happens. When you find yourself feeling unwanted and like nobody cares, maybe you could try letting go of your expectations. Everyone I found is already taken and it feels like there’s no one for me. You have to start caring for yourself first. You might even be surprised that when you’re older, your relationship with your mother could be everything you ever wanted from her right now. I wonder if you have a bereavement support group in the area because what you need to do is find people who are in a similar situation to yourself who will be the only ones who really understand how you feel. give yourself patience, you are growing and developing, give yourself room for trial and error, crying and sadness, while uncomfortable is part of maturing and at 15 you are still developing, don’t judge your self worth and value by what others are doing or having, you matter most, think about the accomplishments you have made no matter how simple or times that brought you joy, and create joy for yourself, as for parents, they are imperfect for everyone, most don’t have training of any kind on how to be a parent, parents should allow you to be learning and testing out life and know that you are loved and safe to be able to practice life. It is a long process to get to that point…I’m not there..that’s how I found this site…I’m discouraged and sad and feeling lost right now; but I know the backstory…I do..I know it’s temporary…I know to focus on things eternal and that all of this life is about loving others and finding God. I always wanted to go, so really I’m making my little Dream come true. My own mother didn’t even so much as text me. Show people a new song you love and no one cares. But I couldn’t get over myself, I couldn’t get past my own feelings. Aftear funeral i cant even tell you how i was treated.And still am. Anyway, if someone does take the time to respond, please dont be cruel. You are important to me — and I suspect you are more important than you know to your family. None of my “friends” from back home ever reach out to see how I’m doing. It’s ALL me. Sometimes we get trapped by our own expectations. As all of the personal info and beliefs had already been addressed via the questions and our emails before our first date. Searching the internet and reading comments from others who feel like nobody cares is helpful…but better is to get out into the world and interact with real people. A holiday or visiting a friend maybe. However I never had a father and I never got to meet him. Plus you stayed away from 2 big addictions(which is a big deal!). It truly sucks feeling so utterly alone. It is so hard to let them make their own choices. When I test my thoughts, even painful ones such as “no one cares about me”, I discover the truth. My heart goes out to you. You just keep smiling at others, even if they don’t smile back & before you know it….You’ll have more people to talk to then you’ll know what to do with!! How do you react when you believe the thought that no one cares about you. I don’t know your story, but I wish the best for you. I have never met anyone else. You are not alone. It’s a foolish thought, I know! It sucks feeling like everyone around you is countries away from you, I’ve experienced that pain and know it all too well. I still have nightmares of him, and/or reliving events through those dreams; although not as often. Learn more about working with Thought Catalog. You are sharing what it feels like when no one cares about you, and that takes a brave soul! You might not think so but it’s true. and they never get to understand you even when you make it look so obvious that you are not okay. It’s for these days that I wait and know there really is more to this life besides disappointment and pain. I’ve dealt with addiction in my past, and I’m younger so it’s a little more difficult for me to stay away from things that involve drinking. Also, besides great screening, the answers are to the questions it would take months of dating (getting dressed, makeup, discomfort) to learn. I KNOW that I am a special child of God. I can only assume it meant the task was left to me. Nothing can fill that void except God. Show people a new song you love and no one cares. I love that He doesn’t judge me for it. Try it Steve. i am alone in life. Where we will not be alone. But now I know I am Gods babygirl. Read the comments section at the end of this article and you’ll see that you are not alone. To those who still feel desperate, please re-read and feel the words in this article. The words you write were heartfelt and sad . It’s really a hard struggle with my self esteem all the time. walking or sewing or whatever? Some, even seem to think its our thinking. If you do, winning takes care … I take it that your article is meant in the spirit of helpfulness, but the reality is – as shown by decades of experience in many contexts – I am invisible, friendless and unlovable. Blessings, Please someone told me along time ago.Its like a piece off pie.When a piece goes missing.Find a way to fill it. I just go to relax and let off some steam. I hope you find peace. Ask for wisdom, guidance, and healing. I must learn some skills and no one seems to want too teach them too me. Very sad. Talk to people. That there is beauty and hope even in the darkest nights of the Soul. So not only do I feel unattractive to the eye, I feel like I am miserable to be around. I am doing little things like that. Stay strong and true!! Good on you for keeping busy, that helps us to forget our sadness for a little time and i think, if you have time find and do things that you have interest in, read good books, go out in nature, take time out for you…you deserve it much love to you, i also feel alone we always move and i just moved to a new city and i had friends but i was ditched and now am alone and i feel so sad and my friend from back home doest get me at all i fear sometimes that nobody gets or cares for me am tired of feeling unwanted and hated i really am what wrong with me. My desperate feelings have subsided.xx. We had too much snow and ice, which made the roads treacherous. So What? I had never had a traffic ticket. As our social media addictions, fake news, Hollywood, Politicians and YOLO attitudes thrive…our individual loneliness deepens. The main thing is this the persons who were bad with us are happy ,god didn’t give any punishment to them, they are happy. Is there any way you can reach out to them today? It is not true that no one cares about me. I want to help her and do what I can and I wanted her to acknowledge I need help too, but she couldn’t see it. Try 7 cups of tea website. Hugs. I also want to thank you for reading my blog. She leaves a room when I enter. I have been down and feeling like no one cares for me. Your not alone find ways and things to help you out of this funk and follow through on them. I was pretty much at my end and was thinking of maling an exit. If I didn’t have my faith, I don’t know what I would have done. Hates me and all of us here on earth. And pray more and find me a good church home…Thank you again for these encouraging words… Sincerely Lashon in California…. I hope you feel better by now. Much love and many blessings to you. I feel the same way to u have no friends by best friend tied my don does not bother with me my mother only complains about her stuff my sister only complains about her stuff my echusbad has new girlfriend u am I’ll and can not do alot and no one ever asks me how I am do ing they just want me to do things for them I wish I would just no wake up all the people that cared about me are gone. I didn’t have many connections growing up either so I don’t have friends. With my pinky I am holding on to God. My parents are gone and because my siblings/extended family drove my Mother to starve herself to death to escape their abuse so they are dead to me (it’s the Italian blood in me). I fight for healing but sometimes I want to give up and allow the clouds of grey to swallow me up. Who loves my soul? There are hundreds of possible reasons that you feel unwanted and lonely: social isolation, death, divorce, a breakup, pet loss, job loss, a serious health issue, hospitalization or even imprisonment. I rarely have time to check my email, (weeks) yet I was here tonight just for you! I don’t know what your religious beliefs are, but on days I feel especially alone, I reach out to my Father in heaven Who has never disappointed or ignored my needs. Trust me i look around. People have taken advantage of me forever, and they’ve taken me grossly for granted, and as I said, now that I have nothing left to help, there’s no one to help me. Maybe your child is ill or lost, your husband gone, your hopes and dreams destroyed. Sometimes I feel there’s a mountain pressing down on my heart and I can’t breath in the vast emptiness. Thank you for being there in the ether and helping me feel less alone. Last night I was at a friend’s for dinner, and I told her that I want to move to a new city. I guess I just long for a real emotional connection with someone. It makes me feel that I have no one around me. Just be a bit assertive for one thing without being rude. We lost one daughter 4 yrs ago in a school bus accident. He is my real Father. You obviously had much pain and abuse in your life. I fell so in love with her that it devastated me . Ordinary people chatting to ordinary people about how they are feeling. I feel very lonely deep inside even surrounded with so called “people”. I was arrested without question from just her verbal statement. In fact, I’m an ambitious go-getter, always looking for the next Mountain to conquer. This repeated a couple more times similarly, before I woke up drenched in a cold sweat. I also have no one to turn to. I do work, alone much of the time, which means too much time to think! I AM trying to reach out (recently started going to Church) but it is very difficult for me as I really DO feel that nobody cares about me and I don’t know anyone here…and they just seem so different from where I come from. Take an interest in her life. He’s the only one I love but still think he’d be better off without me. I hear squat! But i chose not to be like them. There’s something comforting in that the Teacher’s words, even though they’re full of pain and loneliness. The only one who gets excited to see me and/ or shows that he cares about my existence is my dog. I have a family but I feel like I don’t belong here. It really helps mentally. So many are rapped up in their own head they have no feelings for anyone else. Give us a strong sense of who You are, fill us with your power and joy so we can be a light in this dark world. I’m in grad school and I have a few associates and I’m trying to reach out to eventually become real friends with them but it’s hard and I don’t want to come off as clingy so I tend to take a more relaxed approach towards people. My dad got sick, amd my mom is always mad at him, yelling him he is a weak, hypochondriac person. Cant bring my husband back.My beautiful animals are home. And then I feel selfish for wanting her time when I know shes busy with a new marriage and the navy. You have fallen into the trap of believing what you think. Just make a rough plan of the day and then just do one thing on that plan, just one thing to achieve today. He keeps me grounded as well. Diane know that I care. Jesus here knowing He was going to suffer and die yet did nothing wrong but to help us. They began coming into my life in 2006; I’ve done a blog post all about it. I stopped visiting those sites for six months, and felt alot better. I feel every one including my husband just want to be around me because all the favour that i can offer and not really because they want me. How are you doing today? If he could cheat it shows he is a lost man and needs to find himself and not other woman! Maybe a cat due to my work schedule. . Remember, this test isn't about whether people like you or not. If they politely decline, ask someone else. It must be so hard for you, to feel alone in this world. Just a rant from a sad woman. I know that God is holding my hand and helping me to find a way out of this…. Hello Diane! Hugs and much love Carolla, I can relate so much to you. I think we should make a forum so people like us are not alone and can talk to each other that’s why suicide rates are so high in this day and age we need people to talk to if anyone is interested or agrees let’s start contact me at email@example.com, Jennifer, your idea is wonderful! Instead of making myself feel better with hard to believe cliches about how I am never actually alone and how there are plenty of people who love me, I am going to make myself feel better by saying screw them. Your mom loves you so much, and you love her too. Remember your heavenly Father made you. Although, I do believe in the power of prayer. Thank you for sharing. I’ve been trying to move on and have made quite a few attempts at dating, with no luck. Ten years later, I had to make the heartbreaking decision (alone) to place my mother in hospice, where she died within 12 hours. maybe remember me occassionally, but really….. We will not be victims anymore!!!!!!! lybility for them…..my life just sucks…. So, I suppose that is happening for a reason. Then meeting a special love who was dying of cancer. But all of a sudden, my happiness went off.No one really cares me, everyone is acting including my parents. There are people who will read my message and ignore me without bothering to type out a reply. What to Remember When You Feel Like No One Cares, 5 Ways to Handle a Toxic Work Environment, Thoughtful Gifts for a New Mom After a Cesarean Section. My whole body fought it not my mind. By far the best and most honest comment. I am 33 years old and I feel as though I have not really lived . At 72 I thought everyone was interested in everyone else, People cared about each other, people wanted to know me, my life, my children…but it was not real. I’m too old now (52) – no jobs due to affirmative action, How WORSE CAN IT GET BEFORE THE PANGAS GET US! My husband was the same a Baptist . You're going to make it self prophetic by thinking nobody likes you and your behavour will make you think that people don't care about you and they will not like you because you think this. My mother even told me at a young age (started at about 10) that she worried about me because I would “give the shirt off my back to anyone with a sad story.” I never understood that because I always thought, “Isn’t it a GOOD thing to be generous?” But she never explained to me that people would take advantage of my compassion and overt generosity. But you have to discover this for yourself! Although there was a second twist in this, inbetween each period the beatings stopped, I left the house and went for a walk with a “friend” I have never seen before. I feel like nobody understands me and I’m somehow making myself worse everyday. He never came back !! You may feel alone and unwanted, but you’re never alone if you open your heart to the healing divine love of God. I just went to change into my pjs when I came back into the living room to get my phone he was on the phone with 911. I guess what I’m saying is that pain is pain. Find your self a reason. YOu say you are mostly and optimist and sometime feel kinda this way….then you don’t know how it feels at all on a chronic level and shouldn’t give advice. I feel like I’m just waiting for the day where someone actually shows me that they care and love me. They are not worth it. I asked for a prescription. I cannot and will not be homeless.. :( . I’ve never dated, and ladies I come across are not interested, or they’re taken, or they’re involved in some fantasy with a TV or music celebrity they have no chance of getting with. I'm going to let you know a secret. No one to check on me if I’m doing fine. I am a 46 year old female, with two beautiful children. Maybe one way to cope with the feeling that nobody cares is to do the unexpected: start taking care of others. I find it difficult to trust and have always had a hard time sharing my issues. I may be drowning in sorry while I’m alone tonight, but tomorrow I’ll reapply that happy face and hope that it appeals to someone, and hope that I don’t blow an opportunity based on my own low self-worth. I have found there are always 3 things you can do about any situation. I also can’t really afford it, but I’m giving myself this xmas gift of a little trip. $500.00? Sounds like you need medical assistance too; can government healthcare provide a home health aide for you? I tried for years to be someone else just to make friends and it worked. When they sepeested ua I just told them like I just wrote. Procrastination and laziness are another topic, though, so you don’t need to help me with that. Currently going through these kinds of feelings. Remember, everyone is struggling in one way or the other and you cannot compare whose struggle is bigger. Shares her joys and seeks my input. Before that, I was a writer and minister who made a very good living as an administrative assistant. 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